When you choose to discipline Barb, is it usually a spur of the moment thing, or do you tell him he is to be punished and follow any kind of punishment ritual? Can you make him cry? Love, love where you are going!
You are talking about two different things, discipline and punishment. Discipline is about training or correcting behavior but it can be just for fun too. It can be a spur of the moment or I can warn him ahead of time.
Punishment is a consequence for knowingly breaking the rules. We have two forms of Punishment; a minimum of a dozen firm crop or cane strokes directly to the anus, and/or a complete clinical prostate milking.
So Barbs' next orgasm...if he has one... will probably come from the movement of his bull's cock slamming into him?
Yes, and with a lot of work and a little bit of luck that will become his preferred way of orgasm.
Has Tony taken care of you in the marital bed yet, this cycle?
I never stopped seeing Tony, but yes, I spent last evening with him.
I hope this isn't too stupid of a question (I'm new to all this so I'm unsure) but is it possible to prevent your husband from reaching orgasm by frequently milking him? I've read that if you milk him often enough there's not enough semen to produce an orgasm. I don't know, I just wanted to ask since you're so knowledgeable about things like this. LOVE the blog, by the way. :)
That is part of my plan, but that is several weeks down the road. I want 6-8 weeks of TOTAL denial so that he gets nice and frustrated and obedient.
I had so much fun with my new BBC friend today! I love being a Hotwife!
I rode his hard cock for all it was worth and then some ;)
Grab some tissues and enjoy lovers :)
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How many days into Barbs being locked up do you start seeing frustration? And how many days till he starts trying really hard to please so you will consider granting him some smidgen of affection or satisfaction ? Your life is very interesting!
I think it will probably be 7 to 10 days before he starts feeling a bit of frustration and probably close to 3 weeks to a month before it forces him into true submission. I won’t even consider it it until we are at least six weeks out and back into breeding with the Bull.
My husband has wanted this lifestyle for many years, There are some aspects I'm OK with. Hurting him emotionally and physically is not one of them. I believe you love your husband as much as I love mine. How did you get past this love to his emotional and physical masochism? Was there some mental gymnastics you used or are you truly sadistic? His argument that this pain is what he needs is not working. Our marriage is in a tough spot right now. Thanks for your help.
There are a LOT of answers to this question…
First of all, if this is something he wants or needs, then you are not hurting him either emotionally or physically, you are filling a need. The best example I can think of is our children. There are all kinds of things we must do to and for our children that we don’t like/want to do, but if we are good parents we do them because it is what is best for them.
As for me, I must admit that I think there is a true streak or a bit of sadism in me. Fortunately for me I found a partner with which I can let it out and not feel confined. However for you, if it’s not in you, then it’s not in you. We tried for years to have my husband be the dominant, but that is just not who he is and it never really worked out.
We are who we are. We can try hard to do our best to adapt who we are to meet our partners needs, that’s compromise, but ultimately we have to ACCEPT each others limitations.
In your case I have suspicions… If your husband is trying to talk you into this, trying to negotiate, bargain, con, coerce… then it sounds like he might actually be topping from the bottom and that is not submissive behavior at all, that is controlling. If that is the case, he is NOT going to like it when he gets what he is asking for. He is not going to like true submission or service. The whole idea behind this lifestyle is that he meets YOUR needs. His needs are an after thought. If your needs are getting laundry done, doing the dishes and rubbing your feet, then that is what he is asking for.
My advice to you is sit down and both of you find out what each other is ASKING for. No hints, clues, assumptions, hopes, guesses… spell it out and then find common ground.
One of the things it sounds like he is asking for is for you to push his physical/emotional limits with pain/humiliation. Pushing limits is a good thing. It’s exercise. In him asking you to do that, he is also asking you to do that. It’s something you would be doing together.