We are back on our path. Finally.
Making the decision not to breed my husband, yet, made getting him back into chastity a whole lot easier. He was not happy to find that he no longer owns any mens underwear but that’s fine. We need to start moving him away from the idea of being a “man”.
While I have been very excited about this transition, it has none the less not been easy. There was a lot of work involved in getting things ready and even more mental/emotional work. Getting ones mind back into a truly dominant role takes a bit of doing. I need to create a separation between us and remind not only him, but myself as well that he is not my equal.
I ended up taking the paddle to him last night. He hadn’t done anything wrong. I think I did it more for myself than anything else. I had to take it pretty far to really start getting my mind right and I think he is going to have some bruising this morning.